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Anna Quindlen: Why parents should take a Picasso-like approach to raising kids

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Earlier today, I posted an excerpt from the new memoir by Anna Quindlen, “Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake,” (April, Random House).

When she shared that piece, I asked her about her thoughts on parenting. 

Given her book’s attention to the generational shifts in child-rearing attitudes, I asked the expert at introspection, also a mother of three, which parenting trend from the past should be most embraced now and in the future.

Her response: Teach manners.

“When children are small, parents should run their lives and not the other way around,” she said.

Choices are much too confusing for them: It’s not, ‘What do you want to drink?’ It’s ‘Apple juice or milk?’ ”

“You want to have fun with your kids, and no one has fun with someone who runs roughshod. Raising a child is a little like Picasso’s work; in the beginning he did very conventional representational things. Cubism came after he had the rules down pat. Children should have enough freedom to be themselves — once they’ve learned the rules.”

What is the single most important parenting lesson you learned from your own mother or father?

Source: http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/on-parenting/post/anna-quindlen-why-parents-should-take-a-picasso-like-approach-to-raising-kids/2012/04/30/gIQAgebLsT_blog.html#

 

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